I have just been asked if I have any new news?
Do you mean sexual news? I respond
Yes
not really there was this on sunday
then today I was asked if I fancy a 3some in about 2 weeks.
I would have considered it except that the person asking was this man and I won't be going back there again.
I have had a few nice suprises on msn today. Early this morning I had a nice chat with Thomas before work. then this evening apart from chatting with both Rusty and JJ I was amazed to see another name pop up on my screen. A man I met last december. We had a drink together one night then we went for a drive and snog one lunch time. Since then we have chatted briefly once back in about feb/march time then nothing until tonight when he said he wanted to check I am ok and to keep in touch.
oh and last night I missed forest he signed online just as I was going out to rescue #1 son and had gone when I got back.
I have also been exchanging messages on a dating site with a very interesting man (Mars)who lives a little further away than I would prefer but you never know. we have been discusing Mr Rochester and other such types.
update
finally got back online in time to catch forest just as he was going offline tonight we managed to chat for awhile. I shall sleep well tonight :-D
Showing posts with label 3some. Show all posts
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Tuesday, September 04, 2007
Friday, June 01, 2007
swinging
Originally I began this blog to tell of my adventures as part of a couple in our search for fun with others. Last week I spoke to my partner (we have not had much contact in the last few months as he has been very elusive). We both agreed that we were happy to have a break from it for a while. I am not sure whether or not I still want to continue these adventures. Not because I don't enjoy them but because I have decided to cut down on the number of lovers I see. I have decided that NSA is no longer what I want. SL told me that he was having a break as the whole thing was getting very samey. The only thing that was very samey was the difficulty in arranging a time and place when everyone could make it.
Today I learnt that he is still playing and has now teamed up with a younger woman, someone we had talked to about joining us in a 3some and perhaps in a 4some with another man. I feel hurt and betrayed, I don't mind that he has done this or that he has teamed up with her. What hurts is that he couldn't be honest with me and tell me himself. I had to hear it from someone else, someone he had approached to have a foursome with mentionng that he used to be my partner but is now with this other lady.
I have now met someone who I like very much and I hope that this will develope into something more. Our original contact many months ago was through my partnership with SL. This man was part of a couple but they had split up. I told him today what has happened with SL. we are now discussing the possibility of the two of swinging together. But first we have to see how well things work out for the two of us. This is something I will have to think long and hard about. whilst I feel I still have not fully explored that side of my sexuality and the idea still arouses me,
I am not sure if I would be able to play in a group situation with a partner who I care about. I am not sure how I would feel about this man who I like so much having sex with another woman in front of me, even with SL I felt a tinge of jealousy even though I was having sex with her husband.
Today I learnt that he is still playing and has now teamed up with a younger woman, someone we had talked to about joining us in a 3some and perhaps in a 4some with another man. I feel hurt and betrayed, I don't mind that he has done this or that he has teamed up with her. What hurts is that he couldn't be honest with me and tell me himself. I had to hear it from someone else, someone he had approached to have a foursome with mentionng that he used to be my partner but is now with this other lady.
I have now met someone who I like very much and I hope that this will develope into something more. Our original contact many months ago was through my partnership with SL. This man was part of a couple but they had split up. I told him today what has happened with SL. we are now discussing the possibility of the two of swinging together. But first we have to see how well things work out for the two of us. This is something I will have to think long and hard about. whilst I feel I still have not fully explored that side of my sexuality and the idea still arouses me,
I am not sure if I would be able to play in a group situation with a partner who I care about. I am not sure how I would feel about this man who I like so much having sex with another woman in front of me, even with SL I felt a tinge of jealousy even though I was having sex with her husband.
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
turning point
I know I have reached a point where I need to reassess where I am going and what I want.
have been chatting to N on and off tonight on msn. he thinks that maybe I need a woman or a 3some to sort me out!!!
this is the man who told me he thinks people who do that are weird. Not realising I had been in a 3some a few days earlier.
he has explained that going with a woman wont make me a lesbian.
a woman and a man, would sort u out for good, a good time, b, enjoy urself, c, the time of ur life
ask ur friends on line , u dont have to believe what i say, an old man like me (hes just turned 45)
I really dont know where he got these ideas from
I have decided that I am going to tell GB that its over. He has made me realise that I want more than any married man can give me. Mooning over someone who doesnt have the time for me is hurting me too much......its becoming more pain than pleasure so Im getting out now.
have been chatting to N on and off tonight on msn. he thinks that maybe I need a woman or a 3some to sort me out!!!
this is the man who told me he thinks people who do that are weird. Not realising I had been in a 3some a few days earlier.
he has explained that going with a woman wont make me a lesbian.
a woman and a man, would sort u out for good, a good time, b, enjoy urself, c, the time of ur life
ask ur friends on line , u dont have to believe what i say, an old man like me (hes just turned 45)
I really dont know where he got these ideas from
I have decided that I am going to tell GB that its over. He has made me realise that I want more than any married man can give me. Mooning over someone who doesnt have the time for me is hurting me too much......its becoming more pain than pleasure so Im getting out now.
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